by Doug Holt (Author)
A practical playbook for married businessmen who want the spark back - without endless talks or therapy loops.
You lead at work. Now lead at home. In A Man's Guide on How to Save Your Marriage Without Having to Talk About It, coach and entrepreneur Doug Holt gives you a clear, no-drama system to reset the past, reconnect fast, and bring back respect, attraction, and fun - without becoming a doormat or a debater.
Inside, you'll learn how to:
- Reset history fast with the Clean Slate Method(TM) so resentment stops running the show.
- Speak to what she really needs using the Hidden Motives Technique(TM)- she feels seen without you over-talking.
- Raise your stock at home with the Live Like a King(TM) System - simple, repeatable daily habits.
- Stop DEER (Defend, Excuse, Explain, React) behavior and lead as the WOLF (Wise, Open, Loving, Fierce).
- Turn date night from logistics into polarity - no games, no neediness.
This is a field-tested path used by thousands of men to move from roommates-with-rings to partners and lovers again - often seeing shifts in days, not years.
Table of Contents (highlights):
- How It All Starts - the optimism and the drift
- The Pivot - when change actually begins
- The 5 Agonies of No Man's Land - why you feel stuck
- The Sexless Marriage - fixing intimacy at the root
- Losing Respect and Power - reclaiming your edge
- The Nice Guy-The Doormat - stop over-accommodating
- Hiding Out & Sedation - cutting the numbing cycles
- DEER and the WOLF - reactive vs. grounded leadership
- The Shadow - bring the unseen parts online
- Making the Shift - from insight to action
- The Triad of Connection - rebuild trust daily
- Clean Slate Method(TM)
- Hidden Motives Technique(TM)
- The Five Territories
- Live Like a King(TM) System
- Taking Back Leadership - Being Decisive - Date Night
- Riding Off into the Sunset - what it looks like when this works
- Glossary of Terms
If you're ready to take ownership and get results - without talking it to death - scroll up and buy now.
Number of Pages: 198
Dimensions: 0.42 x 9 x 6 IN
Publication Date: October 31, 2023